Thursday, February 14, 2013

Love Stinks

Romeo and Juliet

"These violent delights have violent ends,

And in their triumph die like fire and powder,

Which as they kiss consume."

                       -- Friar Laurence, Act II, scene 5


You've come to the wrong place today if you're looking for hearts and cupids. I am thrilled to have my longtime blogging buddy Julie Flanders, author of the newly released Polar Night, here to tell you why love stinks and why that isn't always a bad thing when it comes to stories...



“Love Stinks (Yeah, Yeah)”

I'm singing along with the J. Geils Band today for this anti-Valentine’s Day Valentine’s Day post. :D Thank you for having me as your guest, LG!

In all seriousness, I am not opposed to Valentine’s Day and I wish everyone out there a happy one.

While I want all real life love stories to be filled with joy and happiness, I can't deny that when it comes to fiction, that all goes out the window. While Polar Night is by no means a love story, love is a core element of the novel, as both of its main characters are dealing with love gone horribly wrong.

Love really does stink for the characters in Polar Night. When the novel begins, both the protagonist Danny and the antagonist Aleksei  have already lost the loves of their lives. Danny’s way of coping with his loss is to try to drown his grief in alcohol. Aleksei’s coping mechanisms are much more twisted and evil.

I may be a bit twisted myself, but my favorite love stories are those that end in misery for the lovers. Romeo killing himself before Juliet woke up. Scarlett realizing too late that it was Rhett she loved. Angel the vampire and Buffy the vampire slayer. 

So as we celebrate Valentine’s Day today, I’m raising a glass to all the doomed fictional lovers who have captured my imagination and my heart over the years. Here's to many more stories of loves lost and hearts broken.

What sort of love story do you prefer? Do you enjoy tragic romances that are filled with loss and longing? Or would you rather see your lovestruck characters happy and content?

Whatever your preference, Happy Valentine's Day! 








Polar Night Now Available


Book Blurb: When Detective Danny Fitzpatrick leaves his hometown of Chicago and moves to Fairbanks, Alaska he wants nothing more than to escape the violence and heartbreak that left his life in pieces. Numbed by alcohol and the frozen temperatures of an Alaskan winter, Danny is content with a dead-end job investigating Fairbanks' cold cases. That all changes when a pretty blond woman goes missing on the winter solstice, and Danny stumbles upon some surprising connections between her disappearance and that of another Fairbanks woman three years earlier. Forced out of his lethargy, Danny sets out to both find the missing woman and solve his own cold case.


The investigation points Danny towards Aleksei Nechayev, the handsome and charming proprietor of an old asylum turned haunted tourist attraction in the Arctic town of Coldfoot. As he tries to find a link between Nechayev and his case, Danny's instinct tells him that Nechayev is much more than what he seems.

Danny has no idea that Nechayev is hiding a secret that is much more horrifying than anything he could ever have imagined. As his obsession with finding the missing women grows, Danny finds his own life in danger. And when the truth is finally revealed, the world as he knows it will never be the same.




Bio: Julie Flanders is a librarian and a freelance writer who has written for both online and print publications. She is an avid animal lover and shares her home in Cincinnati, Ohio with her dog and cat. Her debut novel Polar Night, a suspense thriller with a supernatural twist, is now available from Ink Smith Publishing. Find Julie online at her blog, on Twitter, Goodreads, and Facebook.


 Available for purchase at: Amazon Kindle and Smashwords. 




Okay, Julie(t), you got your Love Stinks...but now I get my Romeo and Juliet for Valentine's Day. :)







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70 comments:

  1. I'm a sap. I want a happy ending, or at least a mostly happy ending.

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  2. Not big on romances either way, but I really like the cover of Polar Night, and the prologue is chilling.

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  3. LOL this is exactly the opposite of the message I have at my place today :)

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  4. Marcy - I usually like a HEA too, but julie(t) got me thinking about the power of telling a story that doesn't end well for the lovers. Tricky to pull that off and not have a reader throw the book across the room, but it does happen. Heathcliff and Rochester come to mind.

    MC - Hmmm, not staying up late to read the latest Harlequin? And, yes, her story sounds kind of creepy like that movie Insomnia. :)

    Dezzy - Ha! We are the Yin Yang of Valentine's Day today. But love really does stink for some. :)

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    1. yep, I celebrate it personally as the Single Awareness DAy :) but try to share love at my place still....

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    2. It was a beautiful tribute to love. Very touching. Everyone should go over and read it today. :)

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    3. indeed :) So, how are you and the hubs celebrating today? :)

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    4. Can't say that's a really big holiday around here...

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  5. Thanks again for having me LG! I love your embellishments LOL.

    @ms, I know I am totally in the minority, I sometimes think it makes me a little disturbed LOL.

    @Maine, thanks, I'm so glad you like the cover and prologue!

    @Dezmond, I am curious now to see your post for today LOL.

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    1. You had to go and mention Romeo and Juliet...can't resist quoting my favorite bard. :))

      Congrats on the release of Polar Night! Can't wait to read it.

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  6. Yeah for Julie!
    I admit I like the happy endings and I'm glad my life had one.

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  7. @Alex, thanks! I'm all for happy endings in life too, just not fiction LOL.

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  8. And it's the exact alternate ending I have at mine - go Julie!! =)

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  9. Happy Valentine's Day, Lu. Wish I could drop a handful of candy hearts in your hand. And happy Valentine's Day to Julie, too. :)

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  10. @Elsie, LOL, thanks!!

    @Suze, thanks, to you as well. :)

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  11. I remember in my World Literature class (from The Beginning to the 1800s) we discussed the difference in societal feelings toward love. In our culture, today, it's all doves and roses and hooray yay love. But back then, it was considered, as my teacher termed it, "a tragic madness." I've never quite forgotten that, because it is kind of true isn't it? And something about the all-consuming tragedy of some love stories is compelling.

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  12. Love doesn't have to be perfect to be wonderful. It's all about what we survive together. That's love to me.

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  13. Elsie - You're both twisted. :P But, see, a good tragic ending to a love story can be very powerful.

    Suze - I wish you could too. I could use a snack. :P

    Callie - Yes!! Our love stories today are so...so unrealistic in many ways. I mean, they're great escape fantasy, but I don't know of many relationships where people look at each other and a minute later feel all consuming love to the point they would walk through fire for them. And I LOVE that term "a tragic madness." Perfect. :D

    Donna - You know, the next couple of lines in R & J are: "Therefore love moderately. Long love doth so."

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  14. Hi Luanne and Julie - I have to say I prefer a happy ending ... but understand that love does stink .. had a few of those!

    I'm so looking forward to reading your books .. Polar Night sometime soon .. and Luanne when yours is ready ..

    Happy Valentine's Day ... Hilary

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  15. I'm with you on this one Julie. I much prefer to read a story about how complex love really is. In real life, it is difficult, even when it is good. Sappy romances-not my thing. I really enjoy Asian novels because they don't lie to women-they tell the truth. It's better for my daughter to read these kinds of things and have her eyes open then to believe that Beauty can turn the Beast into a Prince.

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  16. Maybe it's the male in me, but I'm not interested in reading love stories or stories where the main theme is love, which is a huge reason in why I have no interest in The Hunger Games.

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  17. Hilary - I like love stories with happy endings too, but reality is more of a stinker usually. :P

    Anne - I do wonder if there are cultural differences in how love is portrayed in stories. I'm sure there is. Interesting.

    Andrew - I think it's the Andrew in you. :P And I guess Hunger Games is a love story. For some reason it doesn't really resonate with me that way. Maybe that's why I didn't like the third book that much.

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    1. Well, if it's not, it's certainly the only thing I ever hear anyone talking about in relation to those books, so there's a problem somewhere in the process.

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    2. Probably in MY process. I enjoyed it for the story of a girl who had to figure out how to live through the horrible situation she was thrust into. There is a love story, but that wasn't the part of the novel that kept me interested.

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  18. @Callie, oh, I love that term. I think I would have loved that class. And I agree, the tragedy is compelling to me, those stories are usually the ones I find most memorable.

    @Donna, agree with you there.

    @Hilary, LOL, I have as well. Thanks and Happy Valentine's to you too!

    @Anne, so glad I'm not alone on it, thanks for your comment! Very interesting about the cultural differences, I hadn't thought about that but so true.

    @Andrew, I also have no interest in the Hunger Games but I honestly didn't even know about the love story. I've apparently been on another planet LOL.

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    1. Oh, it's so bad. A parent at my kids' school even has a "Team Peeta" t-shirt. That is how you spell that, right?

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    2. LOL, I'm always totally out of the loop when it comes to that "team" stuff.

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  19. I'm really into high fantasy, so I guess I like my love stories nonexistant. :) Just kidding, high fantasy can have just as much romance as other genres - but I do usually prefer the extremes: either the true tragedy of love lost or a happy ending after struggles and fights and long journeys. :) Even if 'happily ever after' doesn't ring true in real life, I at least like, "together in love at the end of the story with potential promise for forever'. :)

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  20. I used to blast [honestly] the J. Giels Band, Love Stinks album everyday when I got home from school. I'm sure our neighbors hated me. My sister said she could hear from a block away when she came home. heh, heh.

    Tragedy makes for a great story. I like the two mixed up.

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  21. I love happily-ever-after endings, but as a realist, I think they can be misleading because real-life throws lots of curve balls, which can put even the strongest relationships under strain... what really counts is how the couple deal with it.

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  22. Neither one of us went with the traditional hearts and flowers today, huh?lol Love that. This book sounds great, even before she mentioned Buffy and Angel.ha Epic love story there.

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  23. But Happy Valentine's Day, Luanne! You know I love ya!!!

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  24. I'm a bit morbid I guess, because I prefer the tragic stuff.

    In fiction, of course. Not my real life :D

    Happy Valentine's day to both of you!!

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  25. M Pax - Are you kidding? That song was so popular, I even went to see them in concert. I think they had maybe two songs that were any good. :P

    michelle - I like the idea of happily ever after. But life doesn't make it easy for anyone, true enough.

    Marsha - No, I went with love stinks and you went with Love Pimps and Ho's. LOL. That's why I love you. :)

    Samantha - Romeo and Juliet is the most famous love story and it ends in death. Not a happy ending, yet loved by so many. But, yeah, in real life I'd rather the end not turn out so tragic as that!

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  26. I think I may have something in common with you about the love story preferences. Maybe not all of them end in tragedy but most do.

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    1. Perhaps a tragic ending to a love story, because we hope so much for love to turn out right, really can linger and affect people longer than a HEA. It's an interesting choice for a writer to make about the kind of story they're telling.

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  27. This sounds like a great premise for a book -- and set in Alaska -- exotic to most of us. I'll see if I can read an example of the author's writing before I buy. Love the imaginative cover BTW.

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  28. I generally hate a happy love story, so I think I need to read Polar Night. Yay for Julie! I appreciate this post, LG and Julie.

    xoRobyn

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  29. I like almost any love story, as long as there's some other form of depth to it.

    Like... did the hero become a better man? Did the heroine learn something? Bonus points if the same happens to supporting characters.

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  30. oh I entirely embrace your point of view. Love has nothing to do with hearts and cupids and Valentine's day trivializes everything. Oh I adore you :).

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  31. I like that your Polar Night characters come with plenty of baggage, as it makes for a more interesting story. Thanks Julie and LG!

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  32. Love stinks, so true, but sometimes readers need an escape from their own stinky life so that's why the Happy ending is so popular, but that being said, the angst of great characters is what makes them great, and in life that too is true!

    Great post, question -- discussion!

    Happy day after!

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  33. Interesting question. I guess it depends on the story I'm reading, and what seems right, you know? Sometimes, happy-couple-gets-together-in-the-end is just right, and sometimes it isn't.

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  34. Denise - Yes, the setting in Alaska seems like it could almost be a character in itself.

    Robyn - Romcoms love to have their happy endings, but a good tragedy hits the heart just right sometimes. :)

    Misha - Oh, excellent point. When the love story is the catalyst for change, it can be happy or sad.

    Unikorna - I knew you'd love a tragic love story!

    ENI - Yes, I love that too about her characters, how they're both starting the story after love has been broken. Great impetus.

    Yolanda - I agree we need our escapism and fantasy romance novels, if just to have a pleasant dream.

    Jeff - I'm most curious about how/why a writer decides to go with the tragic ending vs the HEA. It can be a risky move, but could also payoff big if it rings true.

    Annalisa - Sometimes we're just in the mood for a downer! :D

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  35. I'm more of the HEA kind of person, but most of all I like whatever fits the story, and sometimes happy ever after doesn't work at all. I also like novels that show a rebirthing of love following a tragedy.

    Happy Weekend!

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  36. Scarlet's realization of her love for Rhett too late is one of my faaaaaavorite scenes in any book. I'm a masochist when it comes to the raw pain caused by love. Thanks for this delightful anti-Valentine's post. :)

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  37. While I don't want roses and butterflies in romance I read, I'm not a big fan of tragedies--I always thought the whole Romeo and Juliet was stupid when I read it as a kid. I don't even get me started on most of Nicholas Sparks romances.

    I think difficulties make the happy ever after all the more satisfying. Characters who think or claim they'll never love again and then find someone who makes them a liar. *grin*

    Sia McKye OVER COFFEE

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  38. I do have a soft spot for the tragic loves. There are so many in history. And I prefer Spike and Buffy rather than Angel and Buffy. :)

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  39. Carol - That's the best, when tragedy turns to true love. I agree. :)

    Nikki - That was a moment that people gave a damn about! :D

    Sia - Well, Romeo and Juliet was a story about teen lust and suicide. Tragic, but as the friar points out, not necessarily the stuff lasting love is made of. And I'm so with you on the love stories making liars of those who've sworn off love. Those are great endings. :)

    Cherie - Spike and Buffy - the real tragedy might be in the names... Okay, don't throw things at me for that. :P

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  40. I do dig a catastrophic ending. Happy endings are a little too Disney.

    My grandma's name is Love (seriously). My dad used to sing that song just to tease her.

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  41. I like happy endings, but I also like stories that makes me feel deeply... even if that feeling is sadness. This morning, I read one of the saddest... and best... books I've read in many years. It's called "Me Before You", by JoJo Moyes, and I defy anyone to read it without bawling. Let's just say it isn't what you'd call a traditional love story, but it definitely explores the true meaning of love.

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  42. Tonja - Love...what a cool name! But what a rotten thing to sing to your grandma. Ha!

    Susan - Oh, I keep hearing about this book! I'll have to put it on my TBR list.

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  43. I guess it would depend on the story, but I can't say I naturally lean towards straightforward happy endings either. Not all out tragedy necessarily, but they should have battled high stakes and sacrificed something to get to that ending. Makes me believe in it more!

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    1. Yep, I like it when they have to fight for the happy ending too. And maybe lose something important along the way that makes them appreciate what they have at the end even more. So true.

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  44. Great leeway to her book...but no tragic romances for this girl....maybe next month ;)

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  45. Very cool cover -- I'll have to check this one out. My love smells like roses, by the way.

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  46. @Bethany, I agree with LG, well said.

    @Mary, LOL, I love that you blasted this song. This one and Centerfold are the only J. Geils songs I can even remember now.

    @Michelle, good point!

    @Marsha, so great to meet you here! I am curious now to check out your post.

    @Samantha, we can be morbid together then LOL.

    @Al, that's just how I feel.

    @Denise, so glad the book and cover interests you, thanks!

    @Robyn, thanks!

    @Misha, that's a good point as well. I love character development in any kind of story.

    @unikorna, oh, thanks! Back at you!

    @Julie, I hope so, thank you!

    @Yolanda, totally agree about the escapism, sometimes you really need to get away from the real world. Good points!

    @Jeff, that's true, sometimes it's about what works best for the story.

    @Annalisa, me too! :)

    @Carol, oh, I agree there too, great stories can come from what happens to a person after a tragedy.

    @Nicki, I love that scene so much too. A fellow masochist here!

    @Sia, oh, I've never finished a Nicholas Sparks book so I don't know about those LOL. Good point about the characters who swear off love finding it, those can be great stories too.

    @Cherie, I loved Spike but I was a Buffy/Angel girl LOL.

    @Tonja, oh, that's so funny! I have a feeling I would love your dad, sounds like my kind of guy LOL.

    @Susan, well you definitely have my interest there. I've never heard of that book but will be checking it out now!

    @Nick, very good point. I like stories about struggles too.

    @Tammy, thanks, maybe I will get you next month LOL.

    @Milo, thank you!




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  47. @LG, thanks so much again for having me here at your site! I apologize for not responding sooner, I haven't had internet at home since Friday morning and have been going nuts.

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  48. I'm a happy endings girl...but that doesn't mean things are perfect or that the characters haven't gone through hell to reach that ending. ;)

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  49. Hmm, now I am seriously intrigued, Julie! Gonna have to find time to read it a lot sooner than I'd planned. As for love, I do need my HEA. It need not be all nicely wrapped up with a bow, but I want resolution and want to know the fight was worth it in the end. Tragedy at the end really bums me out.

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  50. In books, I like them all. In life, I like the sappy, happy endings.

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  51. Julie - So happy to share in the release of Polar Night! Wishing you much success with it.

    Nicole - Yeah, that sounds about right. I think we've got a consensus on tragic circumstances working out right in the end for lovers. :)

    Nancy - Me too! I've got the novel on the Kindle, just need time to read it!

    Southpaw - Aw, sappy endings in real life are cool. :))

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  52. I do enjoy a tragic romance. Of course, I'd be depressed if every book I read had no sign of a happily ever after, but I certainly have no problem with reading/writing about absolutely tortured characters who have to struggle and fight for their happy ending :)

    Thanks for sharing! :)

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  53. What a refreshing post! I like some romance in my genre, and HEA endings, but don't like things too sappy. Yes, love does stink! lol

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  54. Lol, love stink eh? :) Neat post on polar night:)

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  55. The book was fabulous and fascinating! I prefer that a love story have characters who have some damage. I think if you live long enough, you get damaged in one way or another and that makes your relationships richer. I like to see that in a novel. I don't like to see characters finally get together and immediately be torn apart. That bums me out.

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  56. Bonnie- Romance and tragedy, the bread and butter of writers. :)

    Lexa - Yeah, there were no roses and candy hearts here for Valentines this year.

    Mark - You're probably too young to even know who the J. Geils band is!! But, yes, sometimes love stinks. You just can't win.

    Lisa - I haven't had a chance to dig into it yet, but I think with that setting I might wait until it warms up around here. Or else I'll have to read in front of the fireplace. :P

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